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# "You Never Forget It": What Air Traffic Controllers Hear When a Plane Goes Down
- URL: https://www.thecontrail.org/what-air-traffic-controllers-hear-plane-crash/
- Published: 2026-11-01T23:11:02.000Z
- Updated: 2026-11-02T19:07:24.000Z
- Description: After Sunday's deadly jet crash in Florida, I asked my grandfather, who spent 25 years in New York air traffic control, what it's like to hear a cockpit's final words.
- Author: Zach Benitez
- Tags: News, Exclusive

When a plane goes down, most of us find out from a news alert. For an air traffic controller, it can happen live, through a headset, while they're still trying to help. After [Sunday's crash in Palm Beach County](https://www.thecontrail.org/florida-learjet-crash-ntsb/), Florida, where a Learjet 60 business jet went down in a neighborhood and all nine people on board were killed, I asked my grandfather what air traffic controllers hear when a plane crashes, and what it's like to be on the other end of that radio.

Anthony Darienzo spent 25 years in New York air traffic control. He started in 1970 at 22, trained as a radar controller and worked his way up to running New York Center, the Long Island facility that guides planes through some of the busiest airspace in the world. You may know him from this morning's piece on why [pilots don't say "British Airways" on the radio](https://www.thecontrail.org/airline-call-signs-speedbird/).

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## "You Never Forget It"

He didn't have to think about my question for long.

"You never forget it, Zach," he told me. "I've heard final words a couple of times. Sometimes the pilot or other aircrew are calm. Other times they're so upset you can't reach them by radio because they've resorted to constant yelling for help."

That second part stuck with me. Controllers are trained to stay calm and give short, clear instructions, because in an emergency the most useful thing they can do is help the pilot keep flying the plane. That only works if the pilot can hear them, though. When a cockpit is in full panic, the radio stops being a two-way conversation, and the person on the ground is left listening.

Those recordings matter long after the moment passes. Radio calls with controllers, along with any cockpit recordings, help investigators piece together what the crew was seeing and dealing with in the final minutes. The National Transportation Safety Board, the federal agency that investigates crashes, sent a team to Florida on Sunday and plans a media briefing in West Palm Beach on Monday. Its preliminary report usually comes within about a month, while a final cause often takes a year or more.

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## The Saves Nobody Hears About

Most of what controllers do never makes the news, because when they get it right, nothing happens. My grandfather has a story about that too.

"Myself and another controller once stopped a large aircraft from setting up on final approach to the wrong airport," he said. "After the plane landed safely at the correct airport, the pilot was hostile to us!! As if we screwed up."

Landing at the wrong airport sounds impossible until you look at a map of the New York area, where several airports sit within a few miles of each other and runways can look alike from the air, especially at night. Catching that kind of mistake before it turns dangerous is exactly the job. Getting snapped at afterward, it turns out, sometimes comes with it.

It's also a reminder of why the controller shortage we've [covered this fall](https://www.thecontrail.org/air-traffic-controller-shortage-flight-delays/) matters beyond delays. Every controller is a second set of eyes on every flight in their airspace.

After a crash · What happens next

How a crash investigation unfolds

"You never forget it. I've heard final words a couple of times."Anthony Darienzo, 25 years in New York air traffic control

Day 1NTSB investigators arrive and secure the wreckage and recordings

About a monthA preliminary report lays out the facts, usually without a cause

A year or moreThe final report names the probable cause and any safety fixes

Contrail

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## A Job You Carry Home

Later in his career, as manager of the control tower at Republic Airport on Long Island, my grandfather responded to the scene of a midair collision between two small planes and spent time with families who had lost someone. He still talks about the job with real love, and he has plenty of stories, both the funny ones and the hard ones.

Sunday was a reminder that behind every flight, there's someone on the ground whose whole job is to get it home safely. On most days, nobody ever learns their name. On the worst days, they remember those flights for the rest of their lives.

Our thoughts are with the families of the nine people killed in Florida, and with the first responders and controllers who carry days like this with them.